Better Together

What is much better: being single or having someone to love? This is just one of so many questions that I asked to myself before I said the sweetest “yes” to the one I love. To those whose hearts were broken would say it is much better to be single. You’re free. No one can make you cry. You can flirt with anybody. You will not be hurt. Most of all NO HEARTACHES.

I was once one of those who prefer to be single (though I’m not one of those heartbroken). I’m afraid to love and be hurt. I’d rather keep my feelings than being hurt in the end. I’m afraid to take risk. But then, someone came and made me realized that it is far much better having someone to love.

Now, I can appreciate more the feeling of having someone who makes me free but stops me when I’m out of control. Someone who makes me cry but then wipes my tears and makes me smile. Someone who would flirt with me and knowing that it’s only me. Yes, I took all the risk.

I don’t have any regrets when I took the risk. Yes, I’ve been hurt but it didn’t stop me from loving him. For I know now that to be hurt is a part of every relationship, it is inevitable. And when asked again, what is better. I would say having someone is far much better.